As America celebrates
its first Independence Day since the September 11, 2001 attacks on the
World Trade Centers and Pentagon, we mourn our dead and stand proud by
the freedoms we enjoy. Yet, perhaps we don't take those feedoms for granted
as we did so prior to those evil, terroristic acts of violence against
us.
Abuse and exploitation of our most precious resource, our children, is
a form of domestic terrorism. This July 4th let's say a prayer for two
children who were abducted recently, Danielle Van Dam and Elizabeth Smart.
It is incumbent upon us to prosecute their perpetrators to the fullest
extent allowed by law.
Yet, according to the National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect, of the
approximate 3.3 million reports of alleged child abuse and neglect that
will be filed in America this year over 2 million will be deemed 'unfounded'.
In other words, over 2 million American families will be faced with proving
their innocence of crimes they did not commit before our behemoth child
protective service agencies. Why is this?
In any alleged child abuse case in America an accused is guilty until
proven innocent. In contravention to the Constitution and our Fourteenth
Amendement right to due process, the opposite maxim exists. We recognize
that our local priest could be a child molester. We recognize that child
abuse is a taboo. Do we recognize that many professionals who investigate
and evaluate alleged child abuse cases suffer from confirmatory
biases - preconceived notions that these crimes have already been committed
before their work begins? Consider the following two e-mails sent to me
on June 24 and June 26, respectively:
"I would like to tell you that I find your website revolting. I have been
a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner for 6 years and have seen all kinds of
abuse. I have performed exams on sexually abused children and adults,
and physically abused children. In my experience, there are very few "false
reports." However, there are cases where the abuse cannot be proven in
court but this does not mean it didn't happen. According to the DOJ (Department
Of Justice), the false reporting rate for sexual assault is 2-4%, which
is comparable to other types of violent crimes. I understand that sometimes
with divorce cases, one parent may worry about abuse by the other parent,
however most of the time, there is some cause for concern. Your type of
advertising is what makes people think they should not report because
they won't be believed." - KM, RN (SANE Program Coordinator)
"I am very concerned that you are spreading this misinformation. As a
former volunteer at a rape crisis center, I know firsthand that children
do not make up this information. I realize that many cases lack enough
evidence to be proven in court, but this does not mean that it is untrue.
As a matter of fact, I find this offensive. Perhaps something in your
own personal history has led you to hold these views, I do not know. What
I do know is that women and adult survivors of childhood sexual assault
do not suffer from borderline personality disorder disorders, it is as
a direct result of the sexual abuse. For you to distort the truth and
put victims on trial is a terrible miscarriage of justice. Where do you
get off printing this information as if you are some sort of an expert.
This shocks and upsets me." - JN
According to KM and JN , children and women never lie or are never wrong
about abuse. According to KM and JN, we should convict before the accused
is afforded a defense, before the accused has the constitutional right
to a trial by jury of his peers. While child abuse is a serious problem
in America lest we never forget that an accused is innocent until proven
guilty. And, even if one's case is deemed unfounded after being accused
of child abuse they will still bear a scarlet letter emblazoned upon their
name.
Dean Tong