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Men Collect and Shelve Women Trophies: Author Marc
Rudov Blasts Unilateral Pursuit in Article About The Golden Rule
January 6, 2004
MND NEWSWIRE
Marc H. Rudov, author of The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women:
How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth (TM), has published a new
article, “The Golden Rule Dictates Your Sex Life,” that
outlines the hazards of men unilaterally pursuing women. Basically,
the traditional courting roles -- man as hunter and woman as trophy
-- impose an unhealthy imbalance that obviates a peer relationship,
which is the cornerstone of true mutual respect and a satisfying sex
life. Like it or not, relationships adhere to the “Golden Rule
of the Business World”: whoever has the gold makes the rules.
The article is available from the book's Website: http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com.
Los Gatos, CA -- Marc H. Rudov, author of The Man’s No-Nonsense
Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth (TM) (ISBN
0-9745017-0-0), has published a new article, “The Golden Rule
Dictates Your Sex Life,” that outlines the hazards of men unilaterally
pursuing women. Basically, the traditional courting roles -- man as
hunter and woman as trophy -- impose an unhealthy imbalance that obviates
a peer relationship, which is the cornerstone of true mutual respect
and a satisfying sex life. Like it or not, relationships adhere to the
“Golden Rule of the Business World”: whoever has the gold
makes the rules. In a stereotypical situation, a man, by default, leads
and bankrolls the courting process. Consequently, he feels ownership
of the process and the woman. Notwithstanding the obvious hazards of
such an arrangement, most romancers are resigned to it. The only solution,
which requires that both men and women reject years of socialization,
is mutual pursuit. A companion piece to the book, the article is available
for downloading from the Media & Events page at: http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com.
“Unilateral pursuit is an obsolete, destructive, demeaning practice
for both the pursuers and the pursued, making both parties unhappy,”
claims Rudov. “In the classical chase, man plays the aggressor
and bounty-seeker, and, by design, woman plays the target, prize, conquest,
and acquired asset. This power ritual made sense when women could not
vote, get credit, own property, or be president of Brown University
or CEO of Xerox. But, it sure as hell doesn’t make sense in our
modern world. So, the woman who insists on being pursued, the passive
trophy, must understand that she is yielding power to the man, who becomes
the one with the gold and, therefore, the one who will and should set
the rules. In professional sports, after collecting one trophy, the
athlete has but one mandate: shelve it and win the next one. Men and
women who play the unilateral-pursuit game always seem to experience
the same phenomenon,” explains Author Rudov.
Continuing, Author Rudov admonishes women: “Quite simply: If
you don’t want to be treated like a trophy, don’t act like
one. Be proactive, contribute gold, and share control.” Rudov
adds, “Men and women should accept only peer-based, reciprocating
relationships that begin with mutual, simultaneous pursuit.”
Contrary to popular belief, Author Rudov maintains that men and women
are from the same planet but, unfortunately, have been socialized differently
and programmed for conflict. He counsels men that the only way to succeed
with women is to remove their layers of socialized behavior and find
women who have done, or are willing to do, likewise. The Man's No-Nonsense
Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth, which is
available for $17.95 on http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com, teaches
them how. Both men and women have been buying the book and validating
its principles.
The book’s Website also contains a helpful advice column for
men and women: Dear No-Nonsense Advisor.
About the Author
Marc H. Rudov, an investment banker and business consultant residing
in Silicon Valley, California, received his formal education in engineering
and business. He obtained his vast informal training in relationships
with women through over a decade in the dating world after his divorce.
In addition to his book, Mr. Rudov wrote the article “Five Myths
About Women.” Contact Mr. Rudov at: info@themansnononsenseguidetowomen.com
Success in Romance on Planet Earth is a trademark
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